Grief Out Loud
When Grief Gets Silenced: Supporting Black Youth & Families With Dr. Allen Lipscomb

Episode 353 · Season 1

When Grief Gets Silenced: Supporting Black Youth & Families With Dr. Allen Lipscomb

Grief Out Loud

May 12, 202642:51

About this episode

<div class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW127352593 BCX0"> <p class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><span class="TextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang="EN-US" data-contrast="auto"><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">Acknowledgment, validation, and curiosity – meeting grief with these three elements is crucial in creating supportive, culturally</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> relevant grief support environments for children and adults. Dr. Allen Lipscomb has spent his career researching</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">, designing, </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">and implementing </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">anti</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">-racist</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">interventions that directly support not just grief from death loss, but also the grief from ra</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">cialized trauma exper</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">ienced by </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">those in the Black community</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">. </span></span><span class="EOP Selected SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":false,"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559685":0,"335559737":0,"335559738":0,"335559739":160,"335559740":279}"> </span></p> </div> <div class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW127352593 BCX0"> <p class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><span class="TextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang="EN-US" data-contrast="auto"><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">Dr. Lipscomb shares his </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">personal experiences</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> with grief, including the death of his grandmother when he was a child and being wrongly accused of a crime in his adolescence. He also discusses the roots of his </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">work as a clinician, researcher, and Professor of Social Work, </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">including</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> the culturally specific ways he engages with clients</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> that</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> prioritiz</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">e</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> choice and </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">naming </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">racism and racialized trauma that play</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> a role in how people grieve. </span></span><span class= "EOP Selected SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":false,"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559685":0,"335559737":0,"335559738":0,"335559739":160,"335559740":279}"> </span></p> </div> <div class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW127352593 BCX0"> <p class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">We discuss:</span></p> <ul> <li class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">How childhood experiences of death, racism, and wrongful accusation shaped Dr. Allen Lipscomb's understanding of grief, trauma, and identity</span> <span class="EOP Selected SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":false,"134233118":false,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559738":0,"335559739":0}">  </span></li> <li class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">The impact of racialized trauma on how Black youth and men experience, express, and silence grief</span> <span class= "EOP Selected SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":false,"134233118":false,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559738":0,"335559739":0}">  </span></li> <li class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">Why naming experiences like racism, PTSD, and loss can be profoundly important and validating</span> <span class="EOP Selected SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":false,"134233118":false,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559738":0,"335559739":0}">  </span></li> <li class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">What culturally responsive grief support looks like, including storytelling, oral histories, grief mapping, somatic awareness, and community-centered care</span> <span class= "EOP Selected SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":false,"134233118":false,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559738":0,"335559739":0}">  </span></li> <li class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">How grief supporters can avoid rescuer dynamics and instead create invitational, choice-centered spaces to explore grief</span><span class="EOP Selected SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":false,"134233118":false,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559738":0,"335559739":0}"> </span></li> <li class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">The importance of preparing mental health providers, schools, and communities to offer anti-racist, culturally relevant grief support for Black youth and families</span><span class= "EOP Selected SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":false,"134233118":false,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559738":0,"335559739":0}"> </span></li> </ul> </div> <div class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW127352593 BCX0"> <p class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><em><strong><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">Allen E. Lipscomb, PsyD, LCSW,</span></strong> <span class="TextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang="EN-US" data-contrast="none"><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">Professor of Social Work, Associate Chair, Director of MSW Online Program; and Director of Minority Male Mentoring (M3) and Student Success Allies (SSA) program at California State University Northridge in the Department of Social Work. Dr. Lipscomb is a clinical psychologist </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">and</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the State of California. </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">Dr. Lipscomb specializes in providing anti-oppressive and inclusive mental health services to individuals, children, youth, couples,</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">and families of color. His areas of research are centered on </span><span class= "NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW127352593 BCX0">the psychiatric</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> epidemiology among racialized and marginalized</span></span></em> <span class= "TextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang="EN-US" data-contrast="none"><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"><em>individuals who have experienced trauma (i.e., complex trauma, traumatic-grief, and race-based</em> <em>trauma).</em></span><em><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">Dr.</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">Lipscomb has conducted </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">numerous</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> qualitative research studies on racialized Black identified men across the Black/African</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">Diaspora exploring their grief, loss, and complex-trauma experiences. His pedagogy is centered on cultural anti-oppressive and</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">clinically responsive inclusive practices with communities of color. Dr. Lipscomb </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">maintains</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> a private practice; conducts local,</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">national, and international </span><span class= "NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW127352593 BCX0">trainings</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">; is a consultant/coach, and keynote speaker. Dr. Lipscomb has </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">numerous</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> peer review</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">ed</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> journal</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">articles that centers Black male grief experiences and has a published five books all centered around Black men and </span><span class= "NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW127352593 BCX0">boys</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> grief,</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">trauma, and healing journ</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">eys</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">.</span></em></span><em><span class="EOP Selected SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":false,"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559685":0,"335559737":0,"335559738":0,"335559739":160,"335559740":279}"> </span></em></p> </div> <div class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW127352593 BCX0"> <p class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">Resources mentioned in our conversation:</span></p> <ul> <li class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><a class="Hyperlink SCXW127352593 BCX0" href= "https://www.macrothink.org/journal/index.php/ijsw/article/view/23699" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-charstyle= "Hyperlink">Reframing Grief for Black Students: A Qualitative Analysis of Grief Resilient Affirming Care through Empowerment (G.R.A.C.E) Training</span></a><span class= "EOP Selected SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":false,"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559737":0,"335559738":0,"335559739":160,"335559740":279}"> </span></li> <li class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><a class="Hyperlink SCXW127352593 BCX0" href= "https://resmaa.com/merch/" target="_blank" rel= "noreferrer noopener"><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-charstyle= "Hyperlink">My Grandmother's Hands</span></a><span class= "TextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang="EN-US" data-contrast="none"><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> by </span><span class="NormalTextRun SpellingErrorV2Themed SCXW127352593 BCX0">Resmaa</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">Menakem</span></span><span class="EOP Selected SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":false,"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559737":0,"335559738":0,"335559739":160,"335559740":279}"> </span></li> </ul> </div> <div class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW127352593 BCX0"> <p class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">Connect with Dr. Lipscomb</span></p> <ul> <li class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><a class="Hyperlink SCXW127352593 BCX0" href= "https://drallenlipscomb.my.canva.site/" target="_blank" rel= "noreferrer noopener"><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-charstyle= "Hyperlink">Website</span></a><span class= "EOP Selected SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":false,"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559737":0,"335559738":0,"335559739":160,"335559740":279}"> </span></li> <li class="Paragraph SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang= "EN-US"><a class="Hyperlink SCXW127352593 BCX0" href= "https://www.instagram.com/dr.alipscomb/" target="_blank" rel= "noreferrer noopener"><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-charstyle= "Hyperlink">IG</span></a><span class="TextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0" lang="EN-US" xml:lang="EN-US" data-contrast="auto"><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0"> </span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">@</span><span class= "NormalTextRun SCXW127352593 BCX0">dralipscomb</span></span><span class="EOP Selected SCXW127352593 BCX0" data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":false,"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559737":0,"335559738":0,"335559739":160,"335559740":279}"> </span></li> </ul> </div>