About this episode
In this episode Kelly Bryson gives advice on:
<br>- Kelly's views of the relationship area that may differ from other relationship writers (04:25)
<br>- Kelly's relationships and how they function (10:24)
<br>- Whether Kelly feels he is in a particular relationship category (13:50)
<br>- New Culture (free love): love free of fear, possessiveness, control, manipulation (14:30)
<br>- The establishment of social and cultural values / principles in communities and whether this is viewed negatively (15:45)
<br>- The number of people involved in New Culture and their dating practices (18:40)
<br>- Examples of violent communication that most people do not consider violent (22:10)
<br>- Explaining nonviolent communication (NVC) to someone who is unknown to it so they understand it: the empathy approach (24:50)
<br>- Examples of empathy and how to get into it (27:06)
<br>- Does NVC always work? (28:10)
<br>- NVC's impact on relationships (29:30)
<br>- Whether NVC is effective in short term encounters and casual hookups (31:15)
<br>- What Kelly communicates beyond nonviolent communication in his book "Don't Be Nice, Be Real" (31:57)
<br>- Polarization of the masculine and feminine is mostly due to patriarchal society (32:50)
<br>- Do most women and men in the New Culture take on a nurturing behavior towards each other? (36:06)
<br>- The idea of men maintaining their masculinity in a New Culture environment (38:05)
<br>- The type of person that fits into New Culture (39:50)
<br>- How to get involved in New Culture (40:20)
<br>- Kelly's involvement in New Culture and its environment (41:40)
<br>- Nonviolent communication as the best communication tool (45:20)
<br>- Is there a tendency to drift from previous communities as people become more involved in the New Culture community? (45:51)
<br>- The first steps to learning nonviolent communication (48:31)
<br>- Being self-aware of your moods, emotions, judgments, and energy through NVC (51:09)
<br>- OFNR - Observation, Feeling, Need, Request (54:12)
<br>- Advice Kelly offers to men an<br><br>GET MORE: <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-109-non-violent-communication-toolkit-kelly-bryson/">Show Notes & Resources</a>, <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-109-non-violent-communication-toolkit-kelly-bryson/#transcript">Interview Transcript</a> and <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-109-non-violent-communication-toolkit-kelly-bryson/#comments">Comments</a>.
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